I didn't go home that night.
I drove to Naomi's neighborhood and parked across from her building.
It was an old brick apartment house with narrow balconies and a front entrance that needed repainting.
The stairwell light flickered whenever someone opened the door.
I sat in my car and looked up at the windows.
My own house in Lake Forest had nine thousand square feet.
I had rooms I rarely entered and furniture nobody used.
Naomi was raising two children in an apartment where I could see the curtains move when the windows opened.
I didn't know whether the comparison was fair.
I only knew it made me uncomfortable.
At a little after seven, a light came on in one of the upper windows.
A shadow crossed the room.
Then two small figures appeared, jumping on a sofa.
I smiled.
The feeling surprised me.
I had spent years measuring happiness by what I could acquire, what I could build, and how much further I could push the company.
Watching those two boys move around a small living room gave me something none of those things had provided.
Then my eyes filled with tears.
I wiped them away quickly, although nobody was there to see.
I couldn't remember the last time I had cried without being angry.
The next morning, I was still sitting in the car when Russell called.
He sounded as if he had already spent half an hour dealing with problems.
“Where are you? The investors arrive at ten.”
I looked at the building.
“I won't be at the meeting.”
He didn't answer immediately.
“Is this a joke?”
“No.”
“Preston, we've spent eighteen months putting this agreement together. The entire development team is waiting for you.”
“I know.”
“If we don't close today, the deal could fall apart.”
I watched a woman carry grocery bags into the building next door.
“Then it falls apart.”
Russell went silent.
“You're talking about six hundred million dollars.”
“I know what the deal is worth.”
“Then tell me what could possibly be more important.”
I looked toward the third-floor windows.
“My family.”
Russell started to object, but I ended the call.
I stayed still for a few seconds.
Then I opened the car door.
I crossed the street and pressed the buzzer at Naomi's entrance.
A voice answered through the speaker.
“Yes?”
“It's Preston.”
The silence lasted long enough for me to wonder whether she would refuse to let me in.
Then the door clicked open.
I climbed three flights of stairs.
Naomi was waiting at the apartment door.
She wore a plain T-shirt, and her hair was tied up loosely. There were shadows beneath her eyes.
She looked tired.
She also looked like the woman I had once known, the woman who could stand in front of a classroom and explain a complicated scientific idea until every student understood it.
“You came early,” she said.
“I know. I'm sorry.”
She moved aside.
“The boys are having breakfast.”
I stepped into the apartment.
It was small, but everything had a place. Children's books lined one shelf. Drawings covered the refrigerator. A checkered cloth lay across the kitchen table.
The smell of toast filled the room.
I noticed a pair of tiny sneakers near the door and a backpack leaning against the wall.
Ordinary things.
Things I had never known my sons owned.
“Mom?” a boy called from the kitchen. “Who came?”
Naomi glanced toward the doorway.
“Someone I used to know, sweetheart.”
I heard footsteps.
Theo appeared first.
He had a little smear of chocolate near his mouth, and his expression was open and curious.
“Hi,” he said.
I lowered myself so we were closer to the same height.
“Hello. I'm Preston.”
“I'm Theo.”
“I know.”
He tilted his head.
“How?”
I hesitated.
“Your mom told me your name.”
It wasn't entirely true, but it was close enough for the moment.
Theo seemed satisfied.
“Can you make paper airplanes?”
The question caught me off guard.
“I think I can.”
“My brother is better than me.”
He turned toward the kitchen.
“Eli, come here!”
The second boy appeared holding a notebook against his chest.
He was quieter than Theo.
His eyes moved from my face to my hands and back again.
I recognized the notebook from the bakery.
It had planets drawn across the cover in different colors.
Eli didn't smile.
“Are you the man from the picture?”
The room seemed to lose its sound.
Naomi stopped moving.
I looked at the boy standing in front of me.
“What picture?”
He hurried to a shelf and returned with an old photograph.
It showed Naomi and me leaving the church where we had married.
She was smiling at the camera.
My arm was around her shoulders.
I took the photograph carefully.
“Yes,” I said. “That's me.”
Eli studied my face.
“Mom looked nice.”
“She did.”
I looked at Naomi in the picture.
She had been twenty-four when we met at a tutoring center. She was studying for her teaching certification and working with students who needed extra help in science.
I had admired her patience.
Somewhere along the way, I had begun treating that patience as something I could take for granted.
Eli pointed at the photograph.
“Why aren't you in the new pictures?”
I had prepared myself for questions about their father.
I had not prepared myself for this one.
Naomi stepped forward.
“Eli, finish your milk with Theo, please. I need to speak with Preston.”
He looked at me once more before following his brother.
I watched them disappear into the kitchen.
Then I turned to Naomi.
“I need to understand everything.”
She didn't answer immediately.
Instead, she led me to the small kitchen table and pulled out a chair.
A drawer stuck when she opened it.
She tugged harder, and it slid free.
Inside was a blue folder thick with papers.
She placed it between us.
“These are the pregnancy records, the hospital documents, and the birth certificates.”
I opened the folder.
The first photograph showed two tiny babies lying in separate incubators.
One had his hand raised near his face.
The other was surrounded by medical equipment.
I stared at the photograph.
“Are these Theo and Eli?”
“Yes.”
She pointed to the first baby.
“Theo weighed three and a half pounds when he was born.”
Then she touched the edge of the other image.
“Eli was barely three.”
I tried to imagine them that small.
I couldn't.
I had never held them. I had never stood beside their incubators or waited for a doctor to explain whether they would be all right.
I had not even known their names.
I turned to another photograph.
Naomi sat beside Eli's incubator, her face pale with exhaustion.
Her hair hung loose around her shoulders.
She looked as if she hadn't slept in days.
“Were you alone?” I asked.
“Not completely. Joanne, a teacher I worked with, came when she could.”
She adjusted the papers in the folder.
“And Frank brought food when I couldn't bear to leave the hospital for long.”
Frank.
The baker who had given my sons free croissants because their mother was eighty cents short.
I lowered the photograph.
“I should have been there.”
Naomi looked straight at me.
“Yes. You should have.”
She didn't raise her voice.
She didn't need to.
I had imagined that learning the truth would bring anger, tears, and questions.
I hadn't understood how much worse it would feel to hear her state the simplest fact.
I should have been there.
Naomi folded her hands on the table.
“When I found out I was pregnant, we were already separated. I tried calling you, but the number I had no longer worked.”
I looked at the letter Martin had shown me in my mind.
“I sent messages to your office. I went to the building where you used to work. Eventually, your mother agreed to speak with me.”
“What did she say?”
“That you had moved on.”
I shook my head.
“She told me you were seeing someone from your business circle,” Naomi continued. “She said you didn't want me interfering with your future.”
“There was no one else.”
“I know that now.”
I leaned forward.
“Why didn't you believe me?”
Naomi's expression changed.
“Because I had no way to know what was true. You had already told me I didn't belong in your life.”
I looked down at my hands.
She was right.
I could blame my mother for hiding the letter, but Naomi had been living with the consequences of my own words.
I had made it easy for her to believe I wanted nothing more to do with her.
She reached into the folder and pulled out another document.
“This was submitted through the firm handling our separation after the boys were born.”
It was a request to establish contact.
I recognized the signature at the bottom of the response.
Gordon Pierce, the former general counsel of my company.
My mother had recommended him to handle the divorce.
I had signed the documents he prepared without asking what they meant.
The response said any communication had to proceed through legal channels.
It also stated that I did not want personal contact.
I read it twice.
“I never said this.”
Naomi watched me.
“Your attorney's office sent it to me.”
I felt sick.
“Did you try again?”
“Yes.”
“Why didn't you go to court?”
She rubbed her thumb along the edge of the table.
“I had two premature babies. Eli needed treatment, and I had to return to work. I couldn't spend my days fighting a family with more money and lawyers than I could afford.”
She paused.
“Your mother also warned me that if I made trouble, you could try to take the boys.”
I stared at her.
“I would never have done that.”
“The man I married wouldn't have thrown me out for wanting to teach, either.”
I had no defense.
The sentence brought back years of small decisions I had barely noticed at the time.
Missed dinners.
Forgotten anniversaries.
The times my mother criticized Naomi while I pretended not to hear.
The occasions when Naomi asked me to stand up for her, and I told her she was making things difficult.
Our marriage had not been destroyed by one hidden letter.
The letter had kept me from knowing the truth about our children.
But the distance between Naomi and me had begun long before it arrived.
“I was a terrible husband,” I said.
Naomi looked away.
“I didn't need someone to buy me a better life, Preston. I needed someone who would stand beside me.”
I wanted to reach across the table.
I didn't.
“I can't change what I did,” I said. “But I want to be part of their lives, if you'll allow it.”
She studied me for a long moment.
“They don't need expensive gifts. They don't need a father who appears when he feels guilty and disappears when work gets busy.”
“I understand.”
“Do you?”
“I want to learn what matters to them. I want to know what they like, what frightens them, and what they want to do when they grow up.”
Naomi looked toward the kitchen.
Theo was talking animatedly while Eli listened.
“They need stability,” she said. “Eli still has nights when he wakes up frightened. Theo acts as though nothing bothers him, but sometimes I hear him crying after he thinks I've gone to sleep.”
I swallowed.
“I want to help.”
“Then don't rush them. We'll need someone who understands children and can help us explain this properly. We also need to settle the legal questions.”
“Whatever you think is necessary.”
She nodded slowly.
“We can begin with small steps.”
Theo came into the kitchen carrying a sheet of paper.
“Preston, look what I drew.”
It was a house with blue windows and a large garden.
Three people stood outside: Naomi, Theo, and Eli.
There was no fourth figure.
I looked at the drawing for a moment before smiling.
“That's a good house.”
Theo beamed.
“It's the house we're going to have when we grow up. Eli wants a room where he can look at planets.”
“And what will you have?” I asked.
“A really big dog.”
I laughed.
“That's a good plan.”
He held the drawing against his chest.
“Will you come back and show us how to make airplanes?”
I looked at Naomi.
She gave a small nod.
“If you'd like me to, I'll come Saturday.”
Theo ran off to tell Eli.
I watched him go, feeling both grateful and ashamed.
I had been given a chance to meet my sons.
I had not been given back the five years I had missed.
And I was beginning to understand the difference.
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